Pay it forward

Sometimes it's nice to do something for someone else with out getting something in return.  We need more random acts of kindness. Buy a coffee for the next person in line. Text someone to let them know you are thinking of them. Go out of your way to give someone a ride. Do something nice just because. In a world where we all look out for our self first and foremost it's nice to step out and do something kind for someone who isn't expecting it.

Vip zoo night in August

The zoo had their first VIP zoo night. Muffin and I were very excited to attend. There were a lot more people then we expected. The event started at 5 pm and it was a members only event. They had face painting for kids. As well as zoo keeper talks as you walked the zoo. One we caught was so crowded but very informative and fun. It was with the seals. And the zoo keeper was talking to us from in the tank telling us about the daily tasks and where the seals etc were from. It was very very crowded in there. We went and got our free dinner which was a hot dog or hamburger, chips and a drink. Muffin had the hot dogs and I had the chips. The peacocks were out in full force and they came right up and nipped at muffins hot dog.  They were harmless it was really cute and funny. We also saw the zoo keepers at the camels. Which we have before but is still fun to get to pet them and hear more about them. We didn't stay the whole 3 hours but we definitely had a great time and can't wait girl the next VIP zoo event. 

Things are changing for the better

so with all my changes in meds  and working on the more natural approach. Today I decided to switch the timing of when I take my meds. I use to take them before work at 4pm. But since I have been off work for a year and have ca hanged up my meds and gone off a bunch I have been not feeling i am getting what I should out of my meds. So it's time to switch my meds to the am. I'm hoping it will help with some of the fatigue. I also stopped my sleeping meds and started malitonin. Between that and defusing lavender at bed time I have found the transition to not be horrible. The nights I Forget the lavender are definitely not as well rested as when I use it.  Now I'm hoping to let everything settle in and then start using more natural and alternative methods.  I'm still having a horrible time with food and eating. I am looking forward to moving forward with this plan and am lucky my Dr is supportive of it.  Also thank you to  the people who have stuck it out with me and checked on me. It means the world to me. Specially since some people I have tried to reach out have brushed me aside. Thank you so much to the people sticking with me and checking on me. 

Family trip

In August Kirk and my self along with  his brother and family  all went out to spend a few days at his  sister's. It was nice to have all the siblings and nephews and nieces together.  It was really nice to feel like part of a family since my family isn't overly lose its always nice to be welcomed and treated like one of the family.  Kirks sister went above and beyond. It's only the second time I have been to some ones house and not gotten sick. She did an amazing job with the food. Everything was delicious and  I was able to eat even with all my allergies and restrictions. It was wonderful and I hope we get to do it more often. 

Where has summer gone

am I the only one who is wondering where summer has gone? Did everyone have a good summer? Did you get out and enjoy the weather? we tried to get out and enjoy as much local stuff that we could. We had a few kinks in that plan but still made the best of the summer. And now on to fall. I love fall. Just not the fact that it leads to winter lol

Summer Overnight house guest

We had a overnight house guest this summer and she was so sweet. It made me  miss having a little bitty fur baby in the house. We picked her up she stayed the night and then we drove her 5+ hours to her new mom. She was so good while she was with us. Specially it being her first nigh away from her mom. Our dogs were good with her. Mater got a little over protective of his house cause he is a little dink. She was such a pleasure to have and snuggle with. I always love having me some fur babies around. 

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Dinner and a show #5

To end the summer rainbow stage put on sister act. My regular show buddy bailed on me with under 24 hours notice. I was a bit worried about finding someone to go with since everyone seemed to be out of town or busy cause it was the end of summer and such short notice.  I ended up going with a old friend who I haven't seen in ages so it was a great time catching up and lots of laughs at the show.
The show was great with lots of 70's music and fashion and so many laughs. It was a great show and the cast did wonderfully. The show was even carried over for a few shows cause there was such a demand to see the show.

Bucket list item... Seeing Wynonna

So a few weeks ago I got a message from a friend that someone couldn't use their ticket to see Wynonna Judd. I was trilled I was free and able to go because I adore her. And let me tell you she did not let me down. Her voice gave me chills and she was just as funny, charming, beautiful in person. It was on my bucket list to see her. I love her and the fact that she doesn't apologize for who she is. She has been through so much and is such a inspiration. She cares so much for her fans cause she knows after losing everything and rebuilding her life and career that she would have nothing with out the fans. And did I mention that voice!

Garden

this year my garden didn't do so great. Between moxxi eating everything and me not feeling well enough to do much most of August it just didn't go so great. I did great a fair amount of peas, beans, carrots and potatoes. Everything else moxxi munched away on. She ate all the stuff I harvested as well but she left enough to share. Both the dogs love veggies so I can't really complain as they are good for them. But she ate all my turnip, beets and squash lol I am hoping to get planing out my garden for next year in the next month or so.

Growing your hair out

anyone who has grown or tried to grow thief hair out know the pain if can be. You have this period of time when no matter what you do it won't look good. And you just wanna cut it to make life simpler. But if you can get through that faze then you are golden! I'm just getting through that faze. Right now it's finally doesn't look horrible when i get out of the shower, wake up or have day old hair. Now it's at least manageable and workable. The struggle is real. All you folks who go their hair out they know the pain of it!

The awkward stage 

Urg people must think I'm lazy

Normally it doesn't bug me what people think. But with having a a few invisible illnesses and  dealing with the side effects of meds or coming off meds is hard on the body. I shouldn't feel bad if I have to go lay down and rest. Or lay down because I'm dizzy. People don't get that having ME and CFS you need to rest. Between that and fibro I definitely need to rest after  being out of the house to do anything. Think before judging people or needing rest and calling them lazy.

Beautiful jewelry

a lovely women I have gotten to know makes jewelry. I love the stuff she makes its very classic and classy. The piece I have I wear almost every day. I can't wait to get another piece to add to my collection. Her pieces are extremely reasonably priced for the quality of the pieces. I can't get enough of this beautiful jewelry.
https://www.etsy.com/shop/GamineAndGray